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  • To Give or Not to Give When Travelling Abroad: the Issue of Begging

    Photo courtesy of Gregor Younger

    Visit Angkor Wat today and you are met with a shrill chorus of "one dollar one dollar one dollar" from hordes of begging children, while in Ethiopia the unrelenting chant is "you you you you". In Cambodia, older children organise groups of smaller ones to jump up and down in front of photo vistas; Nepalese kids pull and punch you until you hand over "protection money". These resourceful strategies are the new front line in what has become one of the most common and frustrating dilemmas faced by modern travellers, that of begging.

    Firstly, some hard facts about the child beggars you see everywhere on the streets of your holiday destination. You may be surprised to learn that many are the unfortunate victims of child trafficking and are owned outright by business syndicates (in Europe, it's different: child beggars specialize in pickpocketing and are usually part of criminal organizations, often run by their own families). Sold by their parents or kidnapped from the outlying countryside by brokers, these children are required to pay off their purchase debt and ongoing living expenses by bringing in money every day. If their takings are inadequate they are beaten or left unfed. Pretty children are the most lucrative earners; unattractive children are sometimes maimed to increase their earning capability. A child's greatest earning potential is between the ages of two and seven. After this time their appeal to tourists declines rapidly and they are sold on to lower ranking syndicates. For girls the path is especially hard. By the age of eleven or twelve their begging potential is exhausted and they are sold again to brothels. By the age of eighteen the majority of these girls are HIV positive or already dead.

    Not all of the children you see out there belong to syndicates. Many children have discovered that begging can be a lucrative and entertaining pastime, especially when Americans are around. Forgoing school and their homes to hang around the tourists that throng their cities' landmarks, they have learned to ask for coins for their "coin collection", shampoo, sweets, pens, in fact anything they can cajole or wheedle out of the unseasoned traveller. And many tourists believe that by giving children things rather than money, they are somehow subverting the begging cycle or "doing good". Nothing can be further from the truth. Visit the websites of third world aid organizations and you discover that your gifts of sweets and lollies are creating an epidemic of tooth decay in countries where dental hygiene is non-existent. And many of the other favourites on the lists of would be do-gooders are simply sold back to local stores by children who have no intention of using them at school. But the effects of easy benevolence get worse and resonate throughout these children's lives. Because they are unable to compete with the largesse of Western travellers, their parents' authority is undermined, and children often stop attending school or leave home altogether. Without an education, trade or work ethic, they are doomed to a lifetime of poverty and misery. Many cities in the world have prominent signs in public places requesting that you do not give money or gifts to children. A sign in Durbar Square, Kathmandu, states why very clearly: if you give money to our children, you will turn them into beggars. They will not go to school, they will not receive an education, and they will not learn a trade. You will ruin them. In the words of one seasoned traveller, children have no business hanging around foreigners, and as a foreigner, it's your responsibility to make sure it doesn't happen.

    Adult beggars are often part of syndicates too. If you are observant in India and Thailand, you can see them being dropped off by minivan in the morning and picked up again late at night. Part of a syndicate or not, the question of whether to give to adults money is a difficult one and requires much more consideration. On one hand, scams are widespread. Like children, adult beggars have learned not to ask directly for money but for "aid". In India a common sting is for a woman with a small baby (generally rented) to ask you to buy her a can of milk formula. The tin is then returned to the store to be resold over and over and the proceeds are split between the storekeeper and woman. However, some of those people you see begging are genuinely sick, mentally ill, elderly or otherwise unfit to earn a living. Thailand, for example, has no system of social security and the Thai king himself has noted that the sick and poor must rely on the good will of others.

    How to know when its right to give? One traveller asks himself the following questions: will what I'm doing improve this person's life, or degrade it? Will it promote greed and dependency, or foster some small degree of autonomy? And how will fellow travellers to this place — tomorrow, next month or ten years from now — be affected by my actions? In general, as always when travelling, discretion and good sense should be observed. Follow the behaviour of locals: don't give to aggressive beggars, those that practice self-maiming, follow you or are obviously able bodied. Don't give to women with babies or small children, it is likely that they are rented. Do give to the elderly. Make sure that when you give money it's done discretely, otherwise it may be taken off them after you leave and give only at the end of your visit, otherwise you may be mobbed. Give it in the local currency. Money changers change small denomination coins and notes at exorbitant rates. Give proportionally. In Morocco, an agricultural labourer earns approximately 50 dirhams per day. Giving 1 dirham to a beggar is therefore very generous.

    If you looking for ways to make a positive contribution when travelling, here are some alternatives to putting you hand in your pocket and handing out alms. But be warned. These suggestions are not always easy to follow and will require some effort on your part to achieve.

    • Feed a person, keep them healthy. Find the local equivalent of an organization like the Red Cross or UNICEF and donate to them directly. If you want to provide more tangible aid, choose the Fred Hollows Foundation, where a donation of as little as $25 can restore sight to a single person or Kiva, which loans your money then returns it to you after the debt is repaid.
    • Research a worthy non profit organization before you leave home, find branches in the places you are visiting and buy something that they produce – handicrafts, textiles, a meal, postcards. Buying hand made goods rather than giving charity promotes a healthy work ethic, a sense of self worth and most importantly, self-sufficiency. Support groups that focus on women and the elderly. Good examples are Ladli in India, the Mitrataa Foundation in Nepal and the East Timorese Women's Association in Timor.
    • Spend a day and night of your holiday with a community aid group – often these centres have guesthouses and the income generated from your visit will be most welcome. Eat in their restaurant, buy handicrafts in their gift shop, donate a day of your time to their efforts and show an interest in their work. Your visit will provide a sense of achievement, connection and dignity to the people living there and reminds them that people care. A great example is Tikondane in Zambia.
    • As you travel look out for local schools. Drop in and make a donation in the form of money or equipment such as pens, books, ruled paper and maps. If you want to take it a step further, organise a book drive when you get home, then send a parcel of useful stuff (just make sure it actually reaches them).
    • When paying locals for photographs think about what you can give them in exchange rather than money. In the Philippines for example, matches are a valued commodity and local storekeepers charge exorbitant rates because tribal communities have nowhere else to go for supplies. Locals also ask for aspirin, however giving medical supplies comes fraught with its own set of difficulties and should be avoided except in extreme circumstances.
    • If paying for local services such as guiding or portage, THINK about what you are giving them in return. By handing out unearned largesse you are perpetuating a begging mentality and also contributing to local inflation. A dollar might not seem much to you but exchanged into local currency, it could be a fortune. A good rule of thumb is to know the cost of a basic meal. If it's 20 baht or 15 birr, then this is the right amount to give, never mind that this is less than one dollar or euro. Be responsible in this regard and help keep local inflation down!
    • At the end of your trip you may have a few items that you no longer need: old clothing that you've replaced via shopping, old toiletries or even hotel amenities. Rather than leave them for the usually well-paid hotel employees, take a moment to wrap them into a bundle and give them to the needy – an elderly street beggar, a local charity or a school. They will put these items to far better use than your hotel staff, who sometimes sell your cast-offs to supplement their incomes.

    The bottom line is, if you're not prepared to give responsibly, then you shouldn't give at all. As human beings we have a duty of care to each other and as travellers, a responsibility to leave as small an impact as possible on the places we visit – including the people. And unless we can find a way to stop this vicious cycle of begging, it will resonate into the future for many more generations to come.


    If you have anything to add to this list or would like to suggest local charities and schools that you can personally attest for, your comments are welcome!

    2 Responses


    May 11, 2018

    Sorry for my lengthy response, and sorry again for continuing my essay, but I recall another conflicting issue I’ve encountered with the act of “giving” that adds a little more complication again.

    After I visited Cuba and I understood exactly what a society can look like once tourists start a habit of feeding a begging mentality with direct handouts. Many charities universally recommend avoiding direct handouts from tourist to the hands of a local, saying this encourages professional beggars. They would prefer there be an agent in the middle to handle the logistics and ensure a more equal distribution of donations where they deem it is most appreciated/needed.

    Then I visited Mexico where rural towns had just experienced yet another devastating earthquake. Speaking to some local families and Mexican volunteers while standing amid the rubble of what was once a home, they assured me they would be receiving no assistance from the local Red Cross. They had lost faith in such assistance programs (having not been contacted more than a month after the damage occured), and discouraged me from making a donation to an official charity, saying it would only be absorbed by their country’s corrupt upper levels. They advised that if I want to help, that I don’t throw away my money to an official charity.

    Now what do you make of that!?
    Damned if we do, damned if we don’t!


    May 11, 2018

    Thanks for writing this article, Linda.

    I’ve been travelling for almost 18 months now through a couple of different continents and still am left feeling unprepared and caught off guard when somebody approaches me requesting aid (money, food, the clothes I’m wearing).

    Usually when I’m bombarded with requests/demands near a classic tourist destination I find it easier to decline direct handouts to a local, whereas it’s the odd, less touristic places where somebody may approach me and seem remotely interested in my story who then will draw the conversation to money and I’m left feeling more selfish and useless for not complying.

    While I agree with the general concept of most of your tips for responsible gift giving, I’ve found some places it can actually be trickier in practice than theory and something I’m still trying to work on as I go.

    For instance, in Cusco, Peru, fewer and fewer travel agencies still run second hand clothes/goods donation collection/dropoff services in the community due to the problems clothing hand outs can have on the local economy for locals who run clothing shops. Also, there’s the basic problem that most western tourists are simply giants compared to people from the Andes, so clothes are simply nowhere near suitable sizes for donations, that’s if the clothes are even practical (suited to the climate and local taste). What I will say is that there are more accepting children’s clothes than anything else, but generally they’re really just requesting cold, hard local currency.

    Similarly, while the idea of collecting masses of school gear from your home town and sending it off to a developing country sounds good, I’ve often found (from Australia at least) the postage fee almost outweighs the value of the goods themselves. I feel like this money may have been better spent directly buying stationary supplies from the local community you want to help.

    I’ve also taken part in volunteering programs where I’ve offered either basic labour (property maintenance work) for charity sites in return for free accommodation or even attending language exchanges to try to assist locals in mastering English, the language of business (and occasionally they will even let me try to practice their language too). Even with these situations where I am giving nothing but time, I do sometimes wonder if I am taking away the opportunity for a paid position for a local (no matter how simple my work may be), or if I am contributing further to producing a society of two incomes (the english speakers and the non english speakers).

    Anyway, I’ve no doubt that I’ve overthought this matter. I think long term travel full of lengthy bus trips and no wifi can contribute to certain topics receiving more of your attention than is normal.

    Again, thanks for the article! I’ll continue pondering and welcome your thoughts too.

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